I abandoned myself to certain realities when I was a lot younger. That first, in order to keep to a certain lifestyle, a job in education would definitely be noble, but not practical. I was young and restless. Second, I believed in the philosophy that you can’t teach what you don’t know and being a fresh grad with barely any experience in worldly things would pale me in comparison to Richard Dreyfuss (who bares a startling resemblance to Rico’s dad) in Mr. Holland’s Opus or Robin “O Captain! My Captain!” Williams in Dead Poet’s Society.

So after college, I had in my arsenal a whole bunch of theories on andragogy (adult learning), child psychology, “best practices” and teaching philosphy. I was envious of friends who worked for the big agencies like Ogilvy, the McCann group, BBDO, etc. It was then I began to doubt having taken the wrong course. Deep inside though, I thought I was doing the right thing. Maybe not entirely. But I guess being hard headed (dalawa ang puyo ko) I wanted to convince myself that I was right.

Steve Jobs, in his “Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish” 2005 commencement speech addressed how past decisions will only, but always, make perfect sense much later on, …you can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future..

So I trusted. I gave up Integrated Marketing Communications for a Development Education course. I gave up working in PR or advertising so I could do some work in Batangas with farmers and in Negros Occidental Oriental for a family farm school, not to teach, but to develop curricula. (Hyuk) I guess the joke’s on me as I’ve wounded back working with agencies for PR and advertising.

And my units in Education? Well, this letter only proves one thing.

My acceptance into the Institute

That Steve Jobs was right. :)

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  1. Hey, congratulations, Jayvee! Nice to know that someone found their true calling… I hope I find mine soon, too.

    Cheers!

  2. Icoy on August 21st, 2008 at 2:12 pm
  3. Congratulations Jayvee. And thank you for that quote from Steve Jobd. This is the first time I’ve come across it and it makes a lot of sense.

  4. Em Dy on August 21st, 2008 at 2:21 pm
  5. @Icoy – i sincerely believe that your destiny finds you eventually, and not the other way around. as long as you’re not cheating yourself with what you want to do – and it “feels right” it will be easier to find things out.

    at least that’s what i think! :)

  6. Jayvee on August 21st, 2008 at 2:22 pm
  7. @em – thanks! have you clicked on the link? it’s a really good speech!

  8. Jayvee on August 21st, 2008 at 2:36 pm
  9. Congrats Jayvee! :) I still yet have to find that career path that feels right for me :P

  10. Lia on August 21st, 2008 at 3:45 pm
  11. @lia – but you’re already doing well right? :)

  12. Jayvee on August 21st, 2008 at 3:47 pm
  13. lia – im not full time faculty. this is going to be a once a week sort of thing, which is still heavy considering ill be working on case studies and papers. but i know it helps reinforce this “cottage new media” industry and makes it more appealing to corporations!

  14. Jayvee on August 21st, 2008 at 3:48 pm
  15. hey jayvs!
    congratulations! btw you were on the oriental side of negros not on the occidental side when you were working for the farm school hahaha! you have gone a long way and the entire MADE 2003 is proud of you! Keep up the good work!

  16. shasha on August 21st, 2008 at 6:09 pm
  17. SASHA!!!!!!!!!!!! hey thats right i’ll correct it na. its been a while na rin. hope everything’s OK!

    when you coming back to Manila?

  18. Jayvee on August 21st, 2008 at 6:15 pm
  19. Really hope you point people the right way on New Media.

  20. BrianB on August 21st, 2008 at 7:42 pm
  21. So good to see you’ve arrived. I, on the other hand, pushed through with IMC, but went to the United Nations to do advocacy work after graduation, but then went back to PR / Advertising work when I came home to Manila. Will my next career move be a jump back into development work?? Could be. I’m still in my vicious cycle of confusion! So it’s good to know that clarity comes to some people, at least I can keep on hoping that it will come to me too! Heheh, congrats dude :-)

  22. emsdy on August 21st, 2008 at 7:59 pm
  23. hey emily, i don’t think i’ve “arrived.” to say such things and i’m not yet 40 is actually disturbing! the course work is going to be co-designed by myself and prof. ricardo lim. i have help from two other people who are going to form part of the team for this course. i asked for the help of anton diaz and brad geiser.

  24. Jayvee on August 21st, 2008 at 11:13 pm
  25. And just like that, another teacher is born. Congratulations! Or condolences. I’m not sure. I’ve taught for a couple of semesters myself, although at a state university. No one stood on a chair to wish me goodbye, but I came away sure that teaching was an experience everyone should have at least once in his/her life.

  26. Tania on August 22nd, 2008 at 12:47 am
  27. Congrats, Jayvee! :)

  28. teeyah on August 22nd, 2008 at 8:59 pm
  29. thank you tania for those words and to teeyah too!

  30. Jayvee on August 23rd, 2008 at 2:17 am
  31. Congrats, Jayvee! I’ve always admired those who feel a calling to teach. It’s a gift that not everyone has, including me! “Prof” na ba ang bago mong title? :)

  32. Maricar on August 23rd, 2008 at 12:16 pm
  33. hi maricar!! thank you for the words of encouragement! my title? haha, well students would usually keep that to themselves!

  34. Jayvee on August 23rd, 2008 at 4:27 pm
  35. it has been a while since i last visited your blog and now you’re gonna be a teacher! that’s so cool, jayvee! i used to teach English to Koreans. nevertheless, that’s rather different from what you’ll be doing soon. update me with your classroom anecdotes! and oh, link my multiply! i’ve stopped blogging in tabulas :)

  36. Marian on August 27th, 2008 at 4:42 pm
  37. Wow! Congratulations, Jayvee! Really really impressive! :) Good Luck! Knock ‘em dead!

  38. Abbie on September 7th, 2008 at 2:28 am
  39. Oh my effing gosh!!

    CONGRATULATIONS!!

    So sorry for the late late reaction but I’m so happy for you!!!!!

    Congrats!!

    Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  40. Didi on September 18th, 2008 at 4:27 pm
  41. [...] a stronger local impact – there’s of course this little surprise here, an advocacy there, and the academe, plus a few more surprises up my sleeve in the coming [...]

  42. And so winging it yielded the most interesting results | Jayvee Fernandez on Technology and New Media in the Philippines on October 6th, 2008 at 2:02 am
  43. Belated congratulations. You have been teaching all along. Just not in the formal education setting.

    You’ll do great.

    Two tips:

    1. Listen. To what they say, and what they don’t.
    2. You’ll be teaching more with how you live your life than what you say in the classroom. To quote “It’s not how well you blog, it’s how you live your life.” True anywhere. Not just blogging =)

    Now go educate!

  44. jun on October 6th, 2008 at 8:15 am
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